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What would you do?
« on: August 07, 2020, 05:11:48 PM »
If you discover that someone is stalking your wife, what would you do?
Mama always said, If you ain't got noth'in nice to say, don't say noth'in at all!

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #1 on: August 07, 2020, 05:35:43 PM »
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #2 on: August 07, 2020, 06:58:43 PM »
and be ready to take control by what ever means....  if ya can...
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #3 on: August 07, 2020, 08:20:33 PM »
SSS.   Call cops and create a paper trail. 
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #4 on: August 07, 2020, 08:30:44 PM »
OK, if this is really a serious question, I would
A) call the cops
B) stalki the stalker.

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #5 on: August 07, 2020, 08:38:49 PM »
Wrong or right I would contact him in person and let him know what I think of the situation.  I would also let him know I am contacting the police.  They of course don't prevent things from happening but collect evidence after the fact.  Then I would let it sit and see what happens after that. 

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #6 on: August 07, 2020, 08:42:54 PM »
Document, document, document.  Any notes and dates are crucial when you are dealing with a weirdo!  Sorry to say but you also need to make sure the advances aren't being precipitated by the spouse!!!!
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #7 on: August 07, 2020, 08:58:56 PM »
1) Notify the police.
2) Notify the stalker.
3) Buy mace and a audio alarm for you wife.
4) Set-up some camera's to try and get video of him driving by, or worse walking by.
5) The above is assuming it bothers you. If it doesn't ignore 1-4.
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2020, 05:47:23 AM »
Yup, the question is serious. It's one of her co-workers
She has been going to HR and the Union.
They have him on security cameras, of being in areas where he shouldn't be. He's taking pictures of her at work.
They are doing an investigation on him.
The wife was telling me about it all, last night.
The more she told me, the more pissed I got.
I told her that I going to confront him, and she said no, she wants the Union to handle it.
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2020, 06:55:53 AM »
good luck to her and good for you to want to stand up for her...  we don't need folks like that... 
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2020, 07:26:21 AM »
That's a scary situation for sure.  Proceed with caution as the stalker has rights (not that I agree with this) and it's the person who takes direct action against him who gets in legal trouble.  Sorry to hear this and again caution my man. That is unless other action is required then....
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #11 on: August 08, 2020, 08:15:03 AM »
Everyone has good advice. And like your wife said best to let union and employer handle it. I just hope they notify the police too. Me personally if the situation gets worse I would maybe confront the person in hopes of scaring him away.
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #12 on: August 08, 2020, 08:47:05 AM »
Oh, I could definitely scare him away... but would rather just beat the crap out him.
I'm more worried about retaliation on his part towards my wife.
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #13 on: August 08, 2020, 09:17:35 AM »
How about a restraining order? 

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #14 on: August 08, 2020, 09:22:18 AM »
She said that they have to do an "Investigation" first before they can do anything, and that's in process.
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #15 on: August 08, 2020, 09:49:42 AM »
Good luck and stay safe. 

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #16 on: August 08, 2020, 09:57:11 AM »
Sounds like about all that can be done for now is being done. Still doesn't make you or her feel any better about it I'm sure. Some of these clowns who pull this kind of stuff know about how far they can push things too.
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #17 on: August 08, 2020, 10:06:45 AM »
If you need someone to hide the body. Contact me.  I know people
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #18 on: August 08, 2020, 10:24:51 AM »
If you need someone to hide the body. Contact me.  I know people

I thought UPS couldn't ship over 100 pounds 🤣
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #19 on: August 08, 2020, 10:40:54 AM »
If you need someone to hide the body. Contact me.  I know people

I thought UPS couldn't ship over 100 pounds 🤣

now dats funny!!!     :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :happy1:
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #20 on: August 08, 2020, 11:16:57 AM »
If you need someone to hide the body. Contact me.  I know people

I thought UPS couldn't ship over 100 pounds 🤣

No need to ship.  I know beaver ponds that are way back off the road where nobody ever goes.
Anything that is free is worth saving up for.

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #21 on: August 08, 2020, 01:49:49 PM »
Lots of confinement hog buildings here. I'm told you have to remove their shoes otherwise the pigs can't get their feet out of them.  :whistling: 
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #22 on: August 08, 2020, 02:18:55 PM »
 :rotflmao: :rotflmao:   That sounds pretty complete disposal!

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #23 on: August 08, 2020, 03:16:48 PM »
WOW,  I just seen this. Suprised if he doesn't get fired on the spot after the investigation HD.  After that if you see him coming around, you have my blessing... :coffee:

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #24 on: Yesterday at 08:01:32 AM »
So is this guy married HD?

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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #25 on: Yesterday at 08:05:58 AM »
So is this guy married HD?

Nope, divorced
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Re: What would you do?
« Reply #26 on: Yesterday at 08:12:34 AM »
So is this guy married HD?

Nope, divorced

and most likely for good reason too....  he was most likely a control freak there too... 
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