hey .any advise. on a very serious topic

[Boar]

my daughter came home from duluth, recently broke up with her live in boyfreind and his two kids. while home he wiped the 3 bedroom apt. clean out. took everything. cops say its a civil matter. anyone no a good lawyer in duluth. she filing in court. and calling social serices in bemidji wher he is from. also she gotting ahold of a nasty wemons advoc group to help her. shes been completly strip of her life and identiy ecept her drivers lisence. she at a motel right now. any advice would be great
 thanks

[Rebel SS]

If he stole her identity stuff, it's NOT just a civil matter, it's a criminal complaint. If it's just possessions, it is a civil matter. File a police report...regardless. Report to Social Services..Womens Shelter group, document all with the PD. Small claims court will be needed to get her stuff back. Not much a lawyer can do, or will do on this one. Tell her to save her money and do all of the above. Seen that a lot in my career as a cop, Boar...trust me on this one. Good luck, keep us advised.

[glenn57]

damn boar, that sucks!!!!!!!!!!! hope all goes well.

[mike89]

yup do as Reb says all the way, and it there was any abuse get a restraining order too...  good luck....

[LPS]

Fate works in strange ways.....   This may be a blessing in disquise.  Obviously he is not the one!

[Boar]

no identitie stolen just feels like it. but he did take guns in her name whiche shes filing and vehicle titles my wife is help with social services their both mandated reporters. shes fine but just so.violated and rip open.
.

[glenn57]

hey rebster..............in boars last post he stated he took vehicle titles and guns belonging to her? how is that not criminal>>>>>>> just curious.

boar and could call so thugs up to mess him up a bit!!!!!!!!!!!

[Rebel SS]

If he stole her identity stuff, it's NOT just a civil matter, it's a criminal complaint. If it's just possessions, it is a civil matter. File a police report...regardless. Report to Social Services..Womens Shelter group, document all with the PD. Small claims court will be needed to get her stuff back. Not much a lawyer can do, or will do on this one. Tell her to save her money and do all of the above. Seen that a lot in my career as a cop, Boar...trust me on this one. Good luck, keep us advised.

Reread it, I did state that, Glenn ol' boy..it is a criminal complaint IMO. Need to start whackin' immediately with the PD  on this one......

[Boar]

well no he went back wen she was at the hotel and took kore.of her stuf

[Bobberineyes]

hey rebster..............in boars last post he stated he took vehicle titles and guns belonging to her? how is that not criminal>>>>>>> just curious.

boar and could call so thugs up to mess him up a bit!!!!!!!!!!!

  Yep, let's mess him up a bit before the law catches him...

[Rebel SS]

hey rebster..............in boars last post he stated he took vehicle titles and guns belonging to her? how is that not criminal>>>>>>> just curious.

boar and could call so thugs up to mess him up a bit!!!!!!!!!!!

  Yep, let's mess him up a bit before the law catches him...

I'll drive. 

[glenn57]

Hey boober, you still at lakewhereeverdahellitsat!!

[Bobberineyes]

Hey boober, you still at lakewhereeverdahellitsat!!

  yepper,  just put a beer butt chicky on!! You on your way?

[glenn57]

Damn, nope, sorry had to many to drive and momma is hung over!!! Liteweight!!!

[Bobberineyes]

Everybody is always welcome while in the area.  Now, let's plan a trip up nort to thump some skull..

[glenn57]

I got the shovel... I'm ready!!

[Rebel SS]

Road trip!!! 

[glenn57]

Just remember our nickname is boar or Del!!!

[Rebel SS]

Just remember our nickname is boar or Del!!!

 "Del, hide the shovel!!"   

[Boar]

funny...

[glenn57]

And if we have a couple more coming we'll use HAD and limitout!

[Rebel SS]

I can suggest another!!! 

[mike89]

brass knuckles would be nice too!!!

[glenn57]

I can suggest another!!! 

oh so could I. Hi I'm Reb from Rochester!!

[glenn57]

Seriously though boar, I hope this works out in the end. This guy must really be a jerk! Just a real pain in the arse now! I feel for ya! Been kinda the this with my kids in a sort of way!

[Rebel SS]

I can suggest another!!! 

oh so could I. Hi I'm Reb from Rochester!!

Why you little....    

[Boar]

yeah well i aint laughing to much here. nobody fks with kids. and the sucky thi g is 20 years ago i  woulda intorducex to my sock and a cue ball. but i cant, an got sit watch my baby girl go thru this and thers nuthing th dumbass cops will do cause its civil. and what that means it aint important enough. so  someone can live with someone then just rob them blind and let the courts decidem howe screwd up is that!!!!

[mike89]

yes as sad as it is I fully agree Boar,  it's just wrong on so many levels!!!  our kids, family don't go there!!! hope it goes well for you and yours!!!!

[Rebel SS]

If he stole guns and such, how the heck can they say it's civil???! Did they talk to HIM already? They need to talk to BOTH, ALWAYS  before they make any assumption like that. They need to at LEAST talk to him, to determine if it is civil...they CAN do that, Boar!!! When they go out on a call, they don't know if it's a civil situation or not....same thing here. I'd call and demand they go talk to the guy! I feel for ya, man, and for her. Wish I could do something. Guess if that don't work, go find the guy...and do what ya need to do. Tell the cops to stay outta it, cause it's a civil matter. 

[HD]

I feel for ya bud, I really do.
Back in the day, things were different.... you heard about this stuff, and you took care of it.
Nowadays, you look at someone different...you get sued, thrown in jail, or shot.